Today Is The Only Day

By Erika Petrelli On Tuesday, October 30, 2018 no Comments · In Anti-Bullying, Stomp Out Bullying, Kindness, love

I’m so sad about the news that came out of Pittsburgh this weekend, and the straight-up hate that instigated it.  Especially in this month when we’ve been talking so much about Bullying Prevention and kindness. I’ve been sitting and staring at a blank paper for a few days now, trying to put words to it. And I’ve come to realize that I just never will have the right words or the smart words or the healing words for moments like this.

I don’t understand that kind of blatant and impersonal hatred. Never have. But I’m sure I’ve done it in some way, you know? Acted in bias towards someone based on an assumption rather than a knowing. That’s where it all starts, anyway.

I keep coming back and back and back to this quote:  “An enemy is just someone whose story you haven’t heard.”

Most enemies we have are just people we haven’t yet tried to understand,

Have I used this analogy before? So often lately I feel like Rocky Balboa in Rocky III, when he is racing Apollo Creed on the beach and he just stops running. He just gives up, because it’s all too much.  (I love Rocky.  Like, a lot.)

But it’s true…   it can just feel like “oh, forget it.”

But I tell myself this today, and I tell you too…. Don’t stop running. 

If you don’t understand someone, try harder.

If you find yourself at odds with someone, be open to listening.

If you see someone struggling, reach out your hand.

If you have a choice to say something hateful or say nothing… say nothing.

If you have an opportunity to say something kind… say it.

If you love someone, tell them. Tell them.

The sunrise was stunningly beautiful this morning.  Did you see it? And one thing that struck me is that the sun rises for all of us, every day. No matter our beliefs, our backgrounds, our personal stories, our life situations, our geographical location.

The sun rises.

And when the sun rises, while you still have breath, rise with it. Because today is the only day.

What will you do with it?

 

Erika Petrelli

About Erika Petrelli

Erika Petrelli is the Senior Vice President of Leadership Development (and self-declared Minister of Mischief) for The Leadership Program, a New York City-based organization. With a Masters degree in Secondary Education, Erika has been in the field of teaching and training for decades, and has been with The Leadership Program since 1999. There she has the opportunity to nurture the individual leadership spirit in both students and adults across the country, through training, coaching, keynotes, and writing. The legacy Erika strives daily to create is to be the runway upon which others take flight. If you enjoy these blogs, you should check out her interactive journal, On Wings & Whimsy: Finding the Extraordinary Within the Ordinary, now available for sale on Amazon. While her work takes her all around the country, Erika calls Indiana home.